Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Why Don't People Worry About Themselves First!!!!

Well it's been awile. I only write when the feeling strikes, or I have need to vent!!! lol
I feel the need to write today about why people don't worry about themselves instead of throwing their mistakes in other people faces!!!!!!!

I call these people (well if they are women anyway) Drama Queens!! Always a need to have some kind of chaotic comotion in their lives. These are usually the same women WHO HAVE TO HAVE A MAN!!!!

Now I may not be one to talk as I have been with my hubby for 21 years now! We just celebrated our anniversary last week! But are these people truly dumb enough that they do not see what their endless cycles of chaos, drama & self-sabotage do to themselves & to others???? And god forbide anything ever be their own fault!!!! Nope, it's their kids fault they don't have a man, it's their friends fault they don't have a social life & their parents fault for them being where they are in their adult lives.


Until we learn to like ourselves, no one will truly like us!!!

Until we learn to love ourselves, no one will ever love us!!!!

Until we take pride in who we are & know what we stand for, we are all lost in this adventure of life!!!

Why is it most people are uncomfortable getting to know themselves? There really is no shame & should be no regret in who we are! You would not be who you are unless you had gone through those things that have brought you to where you are!!! If you don't like where you are then there is only one person that can change that. Dropping friends, changing your appearance, changing jobs, none of these will matter until you sit down with yourself, decide what you want & what it is that you are going to do to get there!!!! This is when the positive change will occur.
Have a great day everyone!


1 comment:

  1. Oh, oh! You obviously haven't told me the latest. I'll have to talk to you tomorrow.

    I have a little something for you on my latest post.